10X Your Life – Celebrating 100 Episodes

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My friend, welcome to the hundredth episode of the podcast. Oh my gosh. 100 episodes in I am so celebrating this moment. It’s amazing. I wanna take a moment to. Thank all of you who have been tuning in from the, you know, many of you since the start or have been tuning in for a while, listening to the episodes.

And for those of you who are new. Thank you, thank you. Thank you for being here from the bottom of my heart, because I have loved putting this content out into the world for the past 100 weeks. It has been such a joy, such a pleasure. It is truly my favorite place to come and share and create content. So thank you for being here with me.

It’s been such a journey and it is. So wild that it is coinciding with a time in my life where I feel like so much is both coming to completion and it feels like massive new beginnings. It feels like a huge closing of, I was gonna say a chapter, but me and my husband were talking about it and we’re like, no, we’ve closed many chapters.

This feels like the closing of the whole book and a whole new. Series is being written. A whole new book is being written, right? It’s like part two because there’s so much change happening, and what’s wild is that it feels like the vision, the biggest vision that I have held for the past five to 10 years and what’s been on my vision board is all coming to life.

Right now as we speak, it is all manifesting and much of it has already manifested, but the final pieces are all coming together right now, and I truly feel like in the past 10 years I have. Wholeheartedly 10 XD my life, if not a hundred Xd my life. Right? So that’s why I wanted to make our hundredth episode about 10 Xing Your life.

Because I’ve gone through the process over the past 10 years and I’m coming to a close of this 10 x and it’s an interesting thing. I say it’s a close, but it is like. So fun to look back at a vision board and say, wow, everything on there has happened and these dreams that felt so huge and so impossible at one point are now happening.

And it’s almost this weird space of like when you get everything you want and when you’ve 10 next your life and created the vision that you’ve been envisioning for so long and anticipating and so excited about, it’s sort of like, whoa, this is an interesting feeling. Now what. What do I have to look forward to now?

Right. And there’s a part of me who is so excited to just like, receive this and I’m, I’m not just excited to, but I am receiving this and I’m so grateful for it and it’s really special and amazing. Um, and there’s also a part of me that is. In an interesting space where I’m like, well, what’s next? Now that I have everything, now that my life is kind of like exactly what I’ve dreamed of, what is next for us?

And there’s that question mark, and that’s what got me thinking about this concept of 10 Xing because. I remember, um, going to a mastermind at the Life Coach school where I got trained as a master certified coach, and the instructor there, Brooke Castillo, had posed this question that I thought was so eye-opening.

She said, okay, if you could rate your life on a scale of one to 10, like full life, on a scale of one to 10, what would you rate it? And I’m gonna give you a moment to think about that. What would your number be? What would your rating be? Think about that internally for yourself. And then she said, what if, right?

Whatever number you gave it. What if your life right now is actually only a two? Think about how much more is possible. And I loved that because I remember at the time writing my life, oh, it’s probably like an eight, maybe even a nine, right? And right now, that’s how I’m thinking. I’m like, oh my gosh, I’ve manifested so many of the things that I wanted, like.

The career, I completely shifted my relationship with money. I started creating so much abundance. I have the best clients in the entire world. I have an amazing business that I only could have dreamed of 10 years ago. And you know, I’ve got my amazing husband and my little family with Millie and. You know, we’re moving to Hawaii.

My dream to move there full time. We’re moving to Maui into a beautiful home. And you know, my husband’s dream is also coming true and I always hold his dreams as mine as well. I have his dreams on my vision for just as much as I have mine. ’cause I love celebrating together. And I feel like we’re a little unit and you know, Josh has created this incredible album that he has been wanting to do for years and he has all of these.

Huge record labels interested in him, and huge managers were interested in him. And right now he’s in the negotiation phase and he’s really stepping into that. And that is a dream come true. And it seems like it’s all manifesting kind of together at one time. And so it’s so wild to think like, what if this is only a two?

Right, like I would call this almost a 10, probably, you know, life, you know, we’re, we’re still humans here, so let’s say nine to 10, but it is so fun to think, what if this is a two? What is my next 10 x? And while I’m not. Rushing the answer to that. It’s something that I think is really fun to meditate on, and it’s something that I wanna encourage you to meditate on as well.

What if your life right now is only at a two? What would a 10 be? Right. And so in today’s episode, I have some questions that I wanna pose to you, and it’s something that, you know, you might wanna re-listen to this episode and pause it at certain times. Use it as an opportunity for reflection and journaling.

And you can pause, like as I go through these questions, you can write some of ’em down that feel, um, exciting to you if you go through it a second time. Um, and really think about this journal on it. Meditate on it. So these are some of the questions that I am gonna be asking myself as I step into that next chapter as we start writing that new series, the new next book, right?

Um, or maybe like, I don’t know, it’s like part two of me and Josh’s life together, right? Where it feels amazing. But like what is possible? What else could we manifest? What else could we create? What would it be if our life was only a tune now? So these are some of the questions that I am gonna be journaling and meditating on.

So one of them is, what is a dream you’ve quietly carried but have never fully claimed? Another question is, if there were no limits, what would you allow yourself to want?

What’s one desire you’ve labeled as unrealistic that actually lights you up? And what is your soul craving more of? What would you let go of if you knew everything was going to work out better than expected? Where in your life are you settling instead of receiving more? What is ready to come into your life if only you’ve created the space for it?

Let me say that one more time. What is ready to come into your life? If only you’d create space for it? What would you do if you weren’t afraid? I. What are you being called to say yes to right now? And lastly, what if your current life is only at a two? What would a 10 look and feel like? Now, these are the questions I’m gonna be sitting with in the next phase of my life.

Now again, I’m gonna be soaking in the goodness of what I’ve already created and just appreciating the heck out of that. But I do think as humans, we thrive in evolution. We thrive in thinking about a positive future, right? And we thrive in. Expansion. So these questions just open up possibility for us.

And the truth is there is no impossible I can say that, you know, fully. Especially after, you know, this year, I’m like, wow, the things that I thought were so impossible. Are coming to life and so many of my impossible dreams have come to life. So I would encourage you to reflect on those questions, to meditate on them, to journal on them, to think about what is your 10 X life in full?

And it can be business, money, relationships. Family life, right? You can think about community, what matters to you? What do you wanna be doing? How does your soul really want to express? Is there something within you that you know you want, but you just haven’t really given yourself the permission to do it?

Or you didn’t que feel, let me say that again, or you didn’t feel quite ready. That’s what I want you to start thinking about. Alright. And then I’m gonna tell you the process of creating that 10 x life, because I am telling you, I’ve already, just thinking about the past 10 years and what’s actually manifested for me, I wanna tell you about the lessons that I’ve learned in this and how you can really apply them to your life and you can create your own 10 x life.

So the first one is. It is not about more effort, it’s about aligned energy. So you do not create your 10 x life by 10 xing, the hustle by 10 xing action, by trying harder, by pushing harder. It is not about that. You can’t 10 x your life that way, right? You can maybe like two x your life that way, but that’s exhausting and you’re only two xing your results.

You’re not actually two. Xing your full life, right? In terms of how you feel, how you experience life. Um, you know, your inner world, you just can’t double down and do it that way. So if you want to 10 x, it’s about a shift in identity. It’s about a shift in the way that you think you have to 10 x your mindset.

Think differently, right? That is how it’s done. So again, it’s not about more efforting, more pushing, more controlling, it’s about less of all of that, and it’s about coming more into alignment with the truth of who you are. That is how you’re gonna 10 x your life. So here’s a question for you. Where are you trying to force growth instead of aligning with it that is important to ask yourself?

Growth happens through alignment. Growth happens through having a vision and moving towards that vision. Growth happens from thinking in new ways. It happens from growing internally, growing your mindset, investing in yourself. This is what’s gonna allow you to have that 10 x life.

So another question that I wanna ask you around this is what would become available if you gave yourself permission to stop trying harder? That my friend is not the solution. It’s not about trying harder, it’s about coming more and more into alignment. Okay? The second piece that I wanted to give you around 10 X in your life is it’s really important to let go of what no longer belongs.

And this is in many levels. And I said this inside of the Money manifestation movement, one of the teachings I share in the very, very beginning under our foundational videos, I said, so much of manifestation is not about adding on, it’s actually about letting go, right? It’s letting go of the things that are not in alignment with what it is you really want.

Whether that is people relationships. Thought patterns, habits, right ways of being that are just not in alignment with your higher self. If you simply focus on letting go of what doesn’t belong, letting go of what’s not in alignment, what is in alignment will move in with so much more ease and so much.

Faster. So think about that for yourself. What doesn’t belong in your 10 x life, and do you have the courage to let it go? Let it go. It’s not gonna be the easiest thing you’ve ever done. It’s not gonna feel safe, probably. It’s not gonna feel cozy to let it go. I mean, you’re used to it. Your energetic set point at up to this point is used to having that thing, but it is not in alignment with your highest, most wisest, wealthiest self.

So you must let it go if you want to create a 10 x life. All right. The third piece that I have learned is you have to become your future self before you feel ready to be your future self. What I mean by this, I always say become heard. Now you have to start showing up as that version of you you see in that vision in order to manifest it, right?

So the way that I did this was whenever, for example. My first impossible goal was to create a hundred thousand dollars business. So I thought, what does a hundred thousand dollars CEO do? She gets ready, she has work hours. She, uh, dresses nicely for work. She shows up in a certain energy. She shows up with a certain seriousness of her business.

She doesn’t put things off. She doesn’t procrastinate. I became her. Before I was actually making the a hundred thousand dollars. Right? So that’s what you wanna do. If you want a 10 x, you have to step into the identity. First, you have to start thinking like your future self does, and if you want to learn how to align with your future self, I actually have a meditation called Becoming an Energetic Match that dives deeper into this concept, and I have a meditation that helps your subconscious really go in and meet that 10 x version of you really.

See that version of you and connect with it on a subconscious level so that you can start understanding who is that version of you, and you can start aligning with ’em. I’m gonna put that meditation in the show notes that you can get. It is so powerful on this journey. The fourth one, the fourth thing that I really did to step into my 10 x life is I focus.

On having a spiritual practice because 10 x results come from soul aligned clarity, not. Scattered effort. So it was really important and is really important to me that I come back to center. I come back to source every single day, and I plug in. I literally think of it as plugging myself and I have an electric car.

The car does not go on empty. You have to plug it in every night if you want to keep driving. I love the fact that I don’t ever have to go to a gas station. I just get to plug my car in every single night. But it’s not gonna go if I don’t plug it in. And it’s the same for me, and it’s the same for you. If you do not plug yourself into your source, your highest self, your intuition into presence.

And if you do not give yourself time. For that you will limit your life that is guaranteed. So much of, I know what I have created has been as an effect of the spiritual practice of plugging in every day, and that looks different for everyone, right? So plugging in can be as simple as meditating every day.

It can be doing your internal work, it can be getting. Coach, it can be going to the gym and working out and really moving the energy through your body, and it might look different every day, but it’s so important that you have a practice that brings you back to you. So important because that is where, you know, the 10 x life is going to come from.

That is where those aligned ideas, you will be able to hear your intuition, you’ll be able to hear the universes or God’s guidance who is instructing you towards it. So plug in daily, it is huge. The other thing that I have noticed, um, over these past 10 years of creating my 10 X life is that you don’t get there in a straight line.

And oftentimes it doesn’t even feel like you’re going anywhere, right? A lot of these past 10 years, I felt like I was going nowhere fast, like it felt like nothing was happening, right? It didn’t always feel like a 10 x life. There was some obstacles that I had to overcame sometimes. There was definitely a struggle.

I had moments where I went through depression and burnout and all kinds of different things for my learning, for my evolution. And so it’s never gonna be a straight line, but if you keep at it, it will happen, right? So I just don’t believe in the thought. It won’t happen, right? It is like, if it hasn’t happened, it just didn’t happen yet.

That’s it, right? So anytime you’re thinking it won’t happen for me, or what if it doesn’t happen? It’s. Always, it just hasn’t happened yet. I want you to add that on to your sentence. It hasn’t happened yet. It’s never a straight line, and it’s wild how some things, it’s like you hear about this on Overnight success, 10 years in the making, right?

Because that wasn’t a straight line. That was a person committed to their 10 x life and going for it and going for it, and getting knocked down and standing back up. And hitting an obstacle, overcoming that obstacle. They just keep moving. And if you just keep moving towards it, you absolutely will create it.

You have to know that deep in your bones, right? And then sometimes it all comes at once, right? There’s so many things that are coming to me at once. My first big manifestation in this past 10 years was losing 50 pounds and really healing my relationship with my body. ’cause that used to be my biggest, biggest struggle, and I really have gotten my health.

Fine tuned. My body is strong. I feel radiantly healthy. My hormones are balanced. I’m beyond grateful for that. Right. That was the first one, and then it was my business and money and really learning and stepping into the identity of A CEO and someone who really can serve and have impact in a big way and who can make the kind of money that I want to.

That was a big lesson for me in a big evolution for me. But in these past couple years, or really past year, is where so much of it all is coming together where we. Can officially move now and um, you know, it just feels like the right time to sell our house in la and Josh is getting all of these amazing offers and things that are coming into place for him.

So none of this felt like a straight line. It felt like we were constantly working towards it, but all of a sudden, a lot of it is manifesting at once. So just remember, it’s never gonna feel like a straight line. It doesn’t always feel like it’s working, but that’s why it’s important to celebrate the little wins all along the way.

You should be celebrating the little things every single week and really enjoy the journey. Learn to enjoy your life. Now, don’t get caught up in, I’ll be happy once I, I’ll be happy once the 10 X life. Not at all. You wanna learn to be happy now and that. It’s how you manifest the 10 x life. And when I say happy, now, I don’t mean happy 100% of the time, but I mean having the energy of gratitude, of abundance, of love, of compassion, of kindness, these types of energies being your most prominent emotions, your most prominent feelings that you lean into, you can do that now.

You do not have to wait for specific results. To create the emotional life that you want. That’s a key to manifesting, by the way. But I just wanted to say that because, you know, I think it’s important to do that work around feeling, of feeling the gratitude, feeling the appreciation, feeling the love, feeling the celebration.

You know, even with the weeks where it feels like not much is happening, right? ’cause it’s not going to be a straight line. And so. That’s what I got for you with the 10 x. Those are kind of the five main things that I learned along the way, but I also, throughout the whole journey, practiced all the manifestation principles and universal laws that I teach you all here in the podcast and dive deeper.

In inside of the Money Manifestation Movement, which is my coaching program. So that is how I did it, and I’m excited to create the next vision for myself. I will be sharing for sure as it. Comes about. As of now, I don’t even know. I’m gonna be meditating on the questions that I pose to you all, and I’m gonna sit with ’em and think about it.

And honestly, I kind of feel like once I’m finally in Hawaii and I’m in my home and things feel like complete around the move and all of that. Then that’s when the next 10 x evolution is going to surface for me. But I’m so excited for you all and I hope you enjoyed your, let me say that again.

And I hope you’ve enjoyed the hundredth episode of the podcast. Celebrate with me. All right, my friend. Sending you so much love.

 Hey, thanks for listening. I hope this episode is something that you’ll be able to add to your manifestation toolbox to come back to when you need a little extra motivation. If you like what you’ve heard today and wanna to it deeper, you’ve gotta come check out my signature coaching program, the Money Manifestation Movement.

It’s the place where you’ll not only learn manifestation, but you’ll begin to live it alongside me and an amazing. Community of like-minded entrepreneurs doing this work together. Head on over to jamie berman.com to learn more.